The questions a landlord may ask — and the ones they may not

Most privacy problems in an accommodation request come from a landlord asking one question too many, and a tenant answering it because refusing feels confrontational. Knowing exactly where the line falls lets you answer generously up to it and decline politely beyond it.

The lawful scope

It comes down to two questions

Where a disability is not obvious, a housing provider may establish two things: that a disability-related need exists, and that the animal relates to it. Everything beyond those two points is scope creep, however reasonably it is phrased.

1

Do you have a disability-related need for this animal?

2

Can you provide reliable documentation of that need from a licensed professional?

Note what neither question asks: what the condition is, how severe it is, how long you have had it, or what treatment you receive.

Word for word

Answering the five most common overreaches

Each reply concedes something real, offers a legitimate alternative and declines the overreach without accusing anyone of anything. That combination resolves most of these in one message.

“What is your diagnosis?”

“My letter confirms a disability-related need assessed by a licensed professional. The diagnosis itself is not something I am required to disclose, and it is not included on the documentation. I am happy to provide the verification contact so you can confirm the letter is genuine.”

“We need your medical records.”

“Medical records are not part of a reasonable accommodation request and I am not able to provide them. The letter is the documentation, and it can be independently verified using the contact printed on it.”

“Our lawyer needs to speak to your therapist.”

“My clinician can confirm that the letter is authentic through the verification route. A clinical discussion about my condition would require my written authorisation, which I am not providing. Please let me know if the verification confirmation is insufficient and why.”

“You must use our form.”

“I have provided documentation from a licensed professional confirming a disability-related need. If there is specific information you feel is missing from it, please tell me what that is and I will address it directly.”

“How long have you had this condition?”

“That is clinical detail rather than something relevant to the accommodation. The letter confirms a current need, and it is dated so you can see how recent the assessment is.”

What you should give freely

Declining the wrong questions works far better when you have been visibly cooperative on the right ones. None of the following is protected health information, and withholding any of it makes you look obstructive rather than private.

The letter itself, promptly and in writing
The clinician’s name, licence number and state
The verification contact
The species, breed and approximate size of the animal
Confirmation that you are responsible for its behaviour and any damage
A current letter if yours is more than a year old

Frequently asked

Can a landlord ask what my disability is?

No. Where a need is not obvious they may seek reliable documentation that a disability-related need exists, but the diagnosis itself is not something you are required to disclose.

Can they insist I use their own form?

They may request documentation, but generally cannot insist that only their form will be accepted. Ask in writing what specific information they believe is missing from your letter.

Is it rude to refuse to answer?

Framing matters more than the refusal. Offering verification while declining clinical detail reads as cooperative; a flat refusal with no alternative reads as evasive.

What if they ask about my medication?

Medication is clinical detail and is not relevant to whether an accommodation is reasonable. Decline it in the same way you would decline a diagnosis, and point back to the verification route.

Can they ask about the animal itself?

Yes. Species, size and behaviour are not health information about you, and answering openly costs you nothing while making the rest of the request easier.

What if I already told them my diagnosis?

It cannot be untold, but it does not weaken your position. The accommodation stands on the documented need, and you can decline further clinical questions from that point on.

Your privacy is not an afterthought here

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